Men have been left out of the equation when it comes to fatherhood. We live in a society where we are told that biology doesn't make a family, and women are perfectly capable of being wonderful single parents. Both of those statements are true, to an extent. But that doesn't change the need that children have for a father figure. Study after study has shown that children do better in a happy two parent home.
The Cleavers don't exist. It would be nice if they did, but they don't. I don't think it is healthy for a child to watch day in and day out a unhappy marriage and two parents that fight constantly. But we need to get to the point again that we discuss that fathers do matter. They matter a great deal.
On this father's day I thought there is no better tribute than to talk about a man who is putting his money where his mouth is. He is the father of seven so he knows of what he speaks. He knows that his father was a good part of the reason for the success he has had in his life. He wants other children and fathers to experience that. This is so needed in the black community especially. 7 out 10 kids are born to single mothers. The black father has been made irrelevant in our society. That needs to change.
It doesn't hurt that I am long-suffering Knicks fan. Read about his foundation here.
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